22 hours ago
"Whether or not they are right (and they might well be right!), if you are just starting college, that makes you around 17 or 18? And given what you said about your age gap, she is, what, 14 or 15? This gets very serious because by law, ..."
Jul 16
"I should ask for a little clarification, too.
First of all, I had been assuming you were past the age of majority, not a teenager, and are able to support yourself. Are you?
I also read this (since you were taking about love) as, ..."
Jul 16
"Then it's probably best to let her make the first move, if one is made. That protects you from doing anything that seems to her like an unwanted advance.
Your relatives talking about backlash and judgement -- in your world, how import..."
