Welcome to Medhelp and the Living with an Alcoholic. I'm so glad that you posted on this forum, and I hope you stick around . There is help for you and your wife. My
husband and myself quit drinking (and drugs) 16 p;us years ago.. Change is possible, even for the most defiant substance abusers when given the right info. Glad you care to help your self and your spouse. I'll do all that i can to help.
Liz