I have had several 2nd opinions. The meds do help. He no longer throws 4 hour temper tantrums, it no longer takes 2 1/2 hours in the morning to get him ready because he decides that he is not doing something so he hides something and then not only is he late for school but I'm late for work. He is more willing to listen and he focuses on his class work.
He now gets up gets dressed, does his morning routine, etc. His temper tantrums are "I can't believe this f***en sh*t" and lasts about 15 min and that's it. Then he's "I'm sorry Mommy. I'm so sorry I said a naughty word"
If I say a naughty word around him and he catches it (which is NEVER the f word) he is allowed to 'punish' me by reminding me that it is a naughty word and tell me I have to go on time out.
I don't believe in the do I say not as I do. If he gets time out for naughty words the same applys to me.
The stimulants worked wonders and was a blessing BUT it was causing him to bite his nails until they bled among other anxiety things which I couldn't let him continue to be on a medication that was causing that.
I have read that it takes some time for non-stimulant to get into his system but I have given it 2 weeks now and he is now working toward his third week.
My son takes 7 medications a day for lung conditions. If he doesn't have them he will die. I'm sure some of this has something to do with his condition but unfortunatly my son has to have all these medications.
I refuse to give up on my child and refuse to say oh well because this is my baby boy. He holds my heart and all the love that I can give him. He can become something some day and I want him to have the BEST opertunity to become whatever he puts his mind to and not be like me...
Very unorganized, very forgetful, very shy and not know why, how, or where to get help for it.
Are the medications helping any? It sounds like things are not getting any better. I would question the diagnosis and perhaps get a 2nd opininon, esp since the child is so young.
Please learn more about this as with proper testing, digging, and so forth adhd is an appropriate diagnosis for a child of that age.
Please read http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/2488.html his dr did do a very complete exam on him and several ppl had to fill out forms along with him having to go through several testing. Obviously you have not had to deal with a child this little that can throw a 4 hour temper tantrum straight without stopping at all along with several other things.
A diagnosis of ADHD is not appropriate for children of this age who are still in the early stages of development. Find a more competent doctor.