He might also enjoy/be interested in them. (mainly Jeffsaddmind and totallyadd)
Yes I am bc he doesn't realize its really effecting his mental state & it worries me. But he says when the doc raises it to where it "helps" him he will go back to normal. My moms concerned bc she sees me stressed & him stressed bc she cares about us both..but of course I'm her child & she doesn't kno all this w the meds that's going on. The relationship is great, but since he got on his med again its been a rollar coaster & I want things back like they were.
You are concerned for his welfare. Who is concerned for yours? Is this relationship satisfying for you?
Thank you! Yes he's a jerk when he's off of them & when he runs out he has mood swings! It's crazy with him..but yea I'm def gonna look at these sites
I would guess that if he is abusing the meds, his prescription will soon run out and that will end that. Of course, if you and he are in college - staying up late kind of is the norm. I guess the question is - is he a jerk when he is off his meds? That would at least be somewhat understandable. But he is old enough now to have enough control that he should be able to not be a jerk.
This site has some pretty good relationship stuff dealing with AD/HD -
http://www.additudemag.com/topic/adult-add-adhd/friends-relationships.html
And you might find something helpful here - http://totallyaddconnect.com/forums/forum/parents-spouses-and-families-of-adders/relationships/
I do think that both of you really need to make sure you understand all about ADD and its effects on people. Two adult sites on ADD with lots of info are http://jeffsaddmind.com/for-first-time-visitors and
http://totallyadd.com/
This may be way more info then you need, but at least you/he will not that you are not the only people on the planet dealing with this. Best wishes! Feel free to ask if you need any more info.