My two about to be Three year old is OUT OF CONTROL!!! I CANNOT handle him anymore. He rips pages out of books when I try to read to him, he writes on my walls, scrapes my tv screen, stains my carpet purposely, sticks things inside of other things like coins inside of my PS3 and dvd player,bites and fights with his sister, screams and cries until I just give in. I CANNOT control him anymore. I have tried EVERYTHING. I have tried calmly talking to him, spankings, timeouts, and NOTHING has worked. His attention span is limited. For example, I bought him a burrito because thats what he wanted and then he cried his lungs out because he changed his mind and wanted a taco. So I put a taco in front of him and then 1 second later he screamed because he wanted his burrito back. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have also tried to divert his attention with creative activities but he always manages to turn something fun into something bad. Despite all this he is very smart. He can count, sing most of his ABC's and understands spanish. Just the other day, I yelled so much at him that I couldn't stop myself from crying. I cried for so long, I just cant handle him anymore. I need help! Please!