please help

[stressedmum86]

My daughter is 10 and since 2 has had behaviour problems . Every one won't help adhd won't get diagnosed because she is semi settled at scool despite getting out her seat umpteen times a day. She can not interact with other kids cause her attitude stops their interest to play with her and home life is a nightmare she won't do a thing I ask and thrives on winding my other two children up ...

[Sandman2]

    Its very possible to make the schools test her (if you are in the US), tougher in other countries.
    The book, "The ADD/ ADHD Answer book," by Susan Ashley, has lots of ways to help her at school and at home.  

[littlebit667]

If the school won't test her, you could consider having her tested independently.