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ADVISE NEEDED

PARTNER ON LONG TERM STEROIDS ,VERY ANGRY ,MOOD SWINGS VERBALLY ABUSIVE ,DRINKS EVERY DAY ,NO SEX LIFE AT ALL .THIS HAS BEEN GETTING WORSE,WE CANNOT SPEAK TO EACH OTHER NOW .  I AM JUST EMOTIONALLY WRECKED AND TRYING TO WORK A FULL TIME JOB AND KEEP OUR LIVES TOGETHER.BUT I THINK I AM LOOSING.

DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ,HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 10 YEARS ,HIS THREATENING BEHAVIOUR IS FRIGHTENING ,HAS SAID HE WOULD GET SOMEONE TO HARM MY KIDS ,PUT A BROKEN GLASS TO MY FACE .I JUST DO NOT DESERVE THIS.

PLEASE HELP
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535822 tn?1443976780
I am sorry, you dont have to put up with it , today there are places to go, Alcohol does make some folks more abusive ,it does not help when the finances are non existant, I think that your best way if you cannot leave the situation is to carry on with your own work ,your own life, steer clear of him when you can, thing you have to do of course is protect the children so you may have to seek help if he becomes abusive to them, it is not good they are hearing verbal abuse, trust me I know  it will always be with them it cannot be erased from their minds.it will affect them ..they shouldnt be subjected to this.Good Luck I hope you can get up the stamina to leave or he gets a lot of help...
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I AM THE PARTNER.AND I AM FEMALE ,HE HAS HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS .AND WE ARE ALSO FINANCIALLY DRAINED WHICH DOES NOT HELP.

BOTTLE OF WHISKEY TO THE MOUTH LAST NIGHT AS HE RAN OUT OF BEER AND WAS VERY UPSET ,THEN THE VERBAL NASTYNESS ITS EVERY DAY ,IF I SAY NOTHING HE GETS ON TO ME IF I OPEN MY MOUTH HE GETS ON TO  ME ,SHOUTING SWEARING,HURTFUL HORRIBLE THINGS.

I HAVE NO WHERE TO GO

clach
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535822 tn?1443976780
Your profile states you are male, living in Italy, are you the wife ?
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If I can help you in any way, just leave me a message and Ill get back to you.......by you leading the way as I will help you with your dissions you make.......sue
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790775 tn?1275678959
no you dont deserve this you guys need a counsulor and he needs to go to rehab
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