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An ongoing problem from the abuse?

(Sorry aboutvthe backstory)
About 3 years ago I was in a horrible relationship with a boy who enjoyed breaking my heart very sadistically. Upon our last break up I was completely distraught and during my break at work decided to get high. A guy (who's name and face I've completely put away) had been a friend of mine and begun to flirt. I think he realized I was high and took complete advantage of it. I had gone to clean my work restroom and he followed me in. My first reaction was he was playing and with my mind fuzzy I couldn't help but laugh. Next thing I know I was pushed against the wall and his mouth was all over mine. Long story short I was too high to fight back or even scream. At the time I had believed I deserved what had happened... He forced himself into my butt rather vigorously and I couldn't go to the bathroom right for two weeks. Now its been three years and every time I have a bowel movement there's blood and its increasingly painful (no constipation.) I'm wondering if he could have ripped me but I'm not sure. I've tried to go to the lady doctor but she had said there was nothing there (granted. I hadn't had a bowel movement that day at that time) but its reoccurring. What is going on? And is it something that needs to be fixed?...
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I agree with Nighthawk61. I would definitely see another doctor. As a side note, I was wondering if you have talked to someone about this? Suffering could cause a lot of stress, which in turn causes psychical symptoms (still see a doctor though!)
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You definitely need another doctor, the one you went to is not worth the price of admission as is often the case.

This could be really serious, and to be safe, you must have a proper diagnosis and that cannot happen without all of the appropriate testing. These are some reasons why you might have blood in your stool from  http://www.webmd.com/digestive-disorders/blood-in-stool#1

Diverticular disease. Diverticula are small pouches that project from the colon wall. Usually diverticula don't cause problems, but sometimes they can bleed or become infected.

Anal fissure . A small cut or tear in the tissue lining the anus similar to the cracks that occur in chapped lips or a paper cut. Fissures are often caused by passing a large, hard stool and can be painful.

Colitis . Inflammation of the colon. Among the more common causes are infections or inflammatory bowel disease.

Angiodysplasia. A condition in which fragile, abnormal blood vessels lead to bleeding.

Peptic ulcers . An open sore in the lining of the stomach or duodenum, the upper end of the small intestine. Many peptic ulcers are caused by infection with a bacterium called Helicobacter pylori (H. pylori). Long-term use or high doses of anti-inflammatory drugs such as aspirin, ibuprofen, and naproxen can also cause ulcers.

Polyps or cancer . Polyps are benign growths that can grow, bleed, and become cancerous. Colorectal cancer is the fourth most common cancer in the U.S. It often causes bleeding that is not noticeable with the naked eye.

Esophageal problems. Varicose veins of the esophagus or tears in the esophagus can lead to severe blood loss.

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