i think you already know the answer,look at it this way. how would you react and feel if someone else posted what you had? what answer and advice would you give that person? sometimes the answers your searching for are right under your nose. easy as that, good luck and god bless
My in law contacted the youngest and the girl was unable to speak with her as with her friend. She phoned my son angry that he gave her number out. My son says the oldest girl will never contact her dad again. He said if I still took his side what was point of writing to them. Please anyone out there what should I do?
Thank you for reply, I have been wanting to write but very difficult to know what to say as I supported their dad at time. I have been heartbroken too since I saw his texts pursuing the Taiwanese girl 2 years now and he stonewalled me' denied it, lied so many inconsistencies so when caught out that is when I started to doubt about him and then said leaving me', when I saw lawyer he said ok we remortgage our house buy another in joint names And started being nice again but then when he got remortgage money bought his name only left everything behind moved out gradually and now I stay with him weekends and plan to join h when my daught finds a flat (she's only 19) and he's moved to other side of town. I have been going to cousellling as depressed and my life seems to be falling apart he always took care of everything earns far more and not very demonstrative. I have no family left to turn to for advice. Should I ask my in laws what happened when she contacted them. She was insistent they say sorry to their dad. But if he did do those things I hardly think they will do that and my in laws will think I am at fault. This in law cooks Nigerian food which he pays her for for him I can cook too so feel a failure when he dies this. It's not that they are interfering it's their culture but it makes me' feel useless. I feel so alone in all this my father was very emotionally overbearing and abusive. As long as I don't get emotional and keep it light we are fine together, ibtread on eggshells so many questions unanswered. I will write them.
I think these girls deserve a letter from you,rarely do kids lie about these things and your story leads me to believe hemight have abused them.It might mean a lot to those girls if you told them and are sorry.lily
I meant disempowered me' no displeased me' in my post writing this on I phone it changes spellings sorry