You may find more men with these experiences on the mens health Forum,that seems to be where most threads are about sexual preferances ,Good luck
I know there are other men on here who have been sexually abused,they'll talk when they are comfortable.I was also sexually abused,(I am female though) by my older brother who was 10 years older than me, it started when I was 7 and didn't stop till I was 10.
Denise