Thankyou for answering, I really have been creeped out, and I wondered if it happens to others but nobody ever mentions it, due to embarrassment. Yes, he has issues, and I have almost cut all ties. Thanks again.
Has no one ever told him particularly your mom how inppropiate his behavior is, has he been allowed by everyone to behave like this ? Time someone ticked him off.
It's not normal in any situation. A father should not view his daughter that way. I'd be leery of him. The only father I know who is like that is my mom's dad, and he molested her and my sister.
No, it isn't because your father has been out of your life. My dad hasn't been much more than an uncle to us since he and my mom divorced, frankly, but he has never been anything less than sweet when we do see him. You're probably just coping with a man who has always been like this -- i.e., creepy. Keep him out of your life, he sounds like a good person to avoid.