Addicted to spouse who is addicted to crack-cocaine

[sameole_sameole923]

How do you get a way from someone you've loved almost all your life that is addicted to drugs?

[sungirl1260]

I also live with someone addicted to crack cocaine.  We have been together for 11 years so I can relate to your situation.  Do you truely believe leaving is the best solution.  If so then consider leaving.  Maybe you cant because of financial reasons or because you have kids.  You need to sit down with him and let him know  how you feel and you are going to leave unless he gets help.  Depending on how much he is using, what he is using, will dictate the treatment he needs.   It could be addictions counseling, outpatient intensive program, detox and even a long. term rehabiltation center.  Very few people can stay clean without some type of help.  He also needs to attend meetings..Let him know if he continues to use and does not get the help he needs that you will leave.  Some addicts can recover and some continue using.  You have to love yourself as much as you love him.  You deserve to have a good life and to be happy even if  is without him in it. If he refuses to stop using and doesnt get help your best choice is to leave  I hope this helps a little.

[wallady]

good question.  I live in Houston and have the same problem.  Is there a support group for us?  Where do you live?