It is said that what one doesn't know, will not hurt them. There is so much truth to that. At 10:00am on 8-5-18 I found drug paphanelia in my car in my wifes makeup bag. Spoon, pill cases, baggies, a metal holliw rod. I haven't disected the bag further, as my wife was home and extremely irritated. I watched her search endlessly for this thing. She can't ask me if I found it obviously. That would usurp the denial about drug use that she is so adimate about. She left in the car and I could see she was struggling. What could I do? Earlier I said I would take the car from her. She threatened to call the police and tell them I beat the **** out of her. She did that years ago and had me falsely arrested. I don't know what to do. I'm scared. Scared she'll withdraw and die. Scared she'll hurt herself. Scared she'll go find more drugs in a bad place. I'm in hell. I need guidance. Arresting her will just **** her off and she'll be home in an hour mad as hell. The law doesn't help the victims of this disorder. If I knew they could force her into rehab, I'd call in a minute. I have health insurance. I can pay for the rehab. She won't admit she has a problem. She has a felony conviction for drug possesion already. If I arrest her I don't want her to go to prison. Help. She needs help. Help me help her. Help me help our family who lives in daily hell.