my man left delited form

[SmallPepper]

we dont see eye to eye on things but he is trying to battle his demons this has been going on for 3 and beyound he wants form to respond  but the put downs are hard too swallow PLEASE HELP HIM AND ME

[SmallPepper]

swagg was not drinking last night as every one thinks he had other issius but this dose not excuse what he done      pepper   ps cus i was there

[avisg]

well then he probaly made a very good dision .It does not make a whole lot of since to get drunk and come on an addiction site and take his anger out .We are all here to help and be supportive sometimes the truth cant be candy coated.

[SmallPepper]

when he drinks once or twice a week he mello if it was and ok day  but if he drinks when hes on line and some the feed back he dont want to here then ya  mouthy

[avisg]

He was the one the ask to have his account disabled .so I am sure he feels that was the best for him.I would tell him to contue you look for aa meetings .You really need to look into alnon because you are enabling him. They will be a great support for you . how does he react to you go when he gets angry and he has been drinking

[SmallPepper]

thank you for your feed back      smaallpepper

[Mikeinthesouth]

just hang in there hon it gets better as long as he keeps trying sooner or later it sticks. I had so many treis before it stuck this time.

[SmallPepper]

he has a lot of issues  i am not the kind of person he cant talk to so i just exetsits and hope may be there before its late       smallpepper

[Mikeinthesouth]

oic he left here due to hurt feelings. Sorry that could have heppened but people do call it as they see it as long as I had people to rub my back I could not get clean no matter how much I wanted to I had to hear it for what it was I would surely die and die soon if I did not get clean and stay clean. Tell your hubby to hang in there make a 12 step meeting and come back here. I got so much help here it is unreal.

[cathy5841]

I am sorry he deleted his stuff on MH...we are all about support here. but sometimes support is using tough love...thats not putting him down, we call it like we see it...he has to help himself and that includes some type after care..NA/AA or counselling or both...
as the spouse of an addict you get the cr@ppy end of addiction...it is hard...I am an addict in recovery and I have a daughter in active addiction, so I understand both sides...I am here if I can help...email me or send me a note..I am in and out all the time...good luck

[Mikeinthesouth]

dont understand this post. sorry please explain