the dreaded call...

[LIZZIE LOU]

well...i am very, very sad as i am writing this.

my daughter in law lost her baby wednesday night :(   she was 5 months pregnant.   this was my son's first child and my first grandchild and we are all devastated.  please keep them in your prayers as they mourn the loss of their child.

kim

[debsally]

I am so sorry for you and for your son and his wife.  I will be praying for you all and hope you will heal.  I hope they will heal quickly and start trying again.  It never makes sense when a baby is taken, but I hope they will be strong and try again.  Love, Debbie

[hopsing94]

No words we can say can comfort you. Know this,God now has another angel to help him do his work. So sorry for the loss.God bless you and your family through this trying time. John

[road2recovery]

I am so very sorry....I wish i had the words to make you feel better...But i know there is not much anyone can say to take your pain away...Just know that you are loved by many
r2r

[liscamdave]

Oh honey, I am so very sorry. I truly am. You and your family are in my prayers....

xo, Lisa

[FAITHFUL74]

I am so sorry for your families loss. I too have experienced this myself losing a premature at 22 weeks baby boy in 1993. Please trust that this is in Gods' hands and he will provide you with much peace if you trust and ask him too. I also have a close friend that lost a 1 month old premature baby boy two days before Christmas. Your family is not alone and we are praying for you all. God works in mysterious ways and in times like these it is hard to find the words to say, but, do trust in him. When you cry and grieve turn to him.

[flmagi]

So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.

[grievingwidow]

Dear Lizzie,

I am so so very sorry to hear of your family's loss.  Gosh, five months along, your daughter-in-law, must have had to even experience some type of "delivery".  I know you had all emotionally attached yourselves to this child and I am just so very sorry - I don't know what to say.  I have two grandbabies due in the next two months and I know that I would be devastated (not to mention my daughters) if any complications arose.  Well, you and your family are in my prayers Lizzie, just as they are with so many here on the forum.

Love, Cindy

[dyblue]

  I think it's part of the grief process and your just looking for answers I  know what a 5 month old fetus looks like and that must have been awful for you, I would have done the same thing.  It's a process I'm sure you know because your a great lady and bad things happen tp good people .  There a book with that title written by a priest, I'm not religious but it helped me with the loss of a normal child that requires total care for the rest of his life, but death that must be so hard . I'm so so sorry for your loss can't imagine.Your son and his wife may need councelling something like this is very hard on the marriage. I've seen in in the special care nursery where my son lived for 6months. I  saw a lot of empty cribs in there on a weekly basis, life is bloody hard and very painful sometimes.

[LIZZIE LOU]

can anyone tell me exactly WHY i had to look up on the internet what a 5 month old fetus looks like?  this just made it so much worse.

[msinsane]

i am extremely sorry for your loss and all of our prayers are with you and your family try and stay strong you def have alot of support here take care ......msinsane

[dyblue]

   Can't imagine the pain you are all feeling.  I'm so sorry, specially at 5 months thats cruel.  Nature is very cruel.  Personally I think things happen for no reason at all thats what folks said to me when my child was born severly disable.  I beleive things just happen and grief is a huge part of life it's hard to see any reason for that when your suffering such a loss My heart goes out to you and your son and his wife.  God bless you all.  Blue.

[Zurich42]

I am so very sorry for your loss.  After losing my parents and nephew, I came to realize that God has his plan for us - whether he takes us home sooner or later - it's in his hands.  I know how devastating this loss is - your 'hopes' and 'future' have been dashed.  I hope very sincerely you can find a place where you can find peace.  Marie

[tzt2lady]

Oh, hun.  I am so sorry to hear this.  I will offer special prayers as you all mourn the passing of your little angel.  This is so difficult, sweet little baby.
tzt

[want2bmeagain]

I am so very sorry for your loss. May God open his arms and give you and your family the comfort you need. We are all here for you if you want to talk.

[LIZZIE LOU]

thank you all for your kind words...it means alot.

i'm just soooooooo sad.  for the first time in years...and i mean years...i had something to be REALLY excited about...something to look forward to.  the last ten years have been hell...and the last year has been torture.  just when things are starting to get better........another setback!!!!!!   WHEN WILL IT STOP?

[allaboutmary]

So sorry about your family's loss. I never know what to say in these situations.  My thoughts are with you.   Mary

[natalile]

I don't pray
But i will pray for you & all your family at this most horrible time.
Peace natalie xxxx

[uberadtx]

I have been where your daughter-in-law is and I feel for her.  Does it help if I say that everything happens for a reason?  Sometimes I hate hearing that one but its true.  I hope your family finds acceptance and looks forward to the future and the chance for another beginning.  Thinking of you.

[jesusfreak911]

I am so sorry for your families loss. My heart goes out to you. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

[1234betterlife]

kim, i am so sorry this happened to your family. it is such a hard thing to go through, i will be praying for all of you. i know how bad this feels.

[IBKleen]

Kim...I wasn't even going to post after we talked in pm, but I just want to publicly say I am so sorry honey.

If you believe...GOD has a reason for everything. We may not like it, but it is not in our hands.

My prayers are with you all.

[Marce4]

Oh Kim...I am so very sorry! My prayers and sympathy are with you and your family!  This is so very difficult and I  that you all can heal in time!
Marcie

[marcatj]

you will all be in my prayers...

I am so, so sorry.  :-/

[GoingToMakeIt]

This is so sad. I am so sorry. I too will be praying for you and them.