Hi just wanna tell you guys that he came out after two months, it turned out to be pancreatitis. he's up an well today!
Thanks for the update. I hope he gets better.......keep us posted. sara
yea all of us are really close its just that they cant describe exactly what like a doctor can, they are just tellin me things that i cant identify with like his 'system weak'... where he is in the icu ward i cant even send his cards of anything.. they are not allowing anything into the room.. i can understand that in a way.. but y it pisses me that i cant get to go see him.... its been 8 days now... he has stayed the same... his mom told me that the doctors said the medication he's getting is good enough to fix a horse.. so imma keep prayin... thanks for all the responses y'all.. i am really gatherin some good info thats helping me get through this.. and ill never forget you guys!!!!! <3
Hey, hun.......Post anywhere you need to if you are in need of answers. I don't know why people are being so rude to you. Post in as many forums as you need to and gather as many responses as you can....
that's what med-help is here for, i thought......cures and answers? maybe you can find one of the ask a doctors forums, but the only way you are going to find out anything valid is to ask his family to give you answers. Demand it if you have to ....you are his girlfriend. Do you have a good relationship with his parents and siblings??
My prayers are with everyone who's lives he's touched.
~~hugs~~
nauty...........
sure right, gotta make a difference and and save somone's life someday...... thanks for everthing......
You said in another one of your posts on the Alcohol forum it may be his bile ducts or something. Hopefully he will pull thru this. I see you are only 15 yrs old and i am sure this is very hard. We really dont have any answers for you as this is a medical condition your bf has. Make sure you take care of yourself during this too and finish your school exams.
tanx soo much for all the prayersss....... i really appreciate it!!
I am sorry to hear he is so ill. Not to be rude, but you asked this question yesterday in the Alcoholism Community and you got some good responses there. No one here can tell you anything different. The doctors need to let you know what is going on with him. Anything we say would be a guess and I would not do that.
You need to get to the doctors or like sara said, get a hold of a family member.
Best of luck to both of you.
well i live in trinidad in the caribbean...... i dont kno if its nay different away but i cant get to go see himmm although we've been together 4.5 yrss.. they are only allowing his parents and siblings.... his sisters are telling me that his system weak, and that they sedated him on thursday and today..... he has been drinking alot and i have my final high school exams in january.. its really hard.... i am just tryin to gather some info from u guys to get some hope here.... his mom just tellin me he is in serious condition and keep stron... i heard of pancreatitis, someting to do wit the kidneys... his organs are scarred.. they said alot of things but they not sure wat is it ( his sisters)...
Im sorry to hear he isnt better but we dont know what to tell you. I spent quite some time in ICU with a family member and we were always updated by the doctor to what the diagnosis was......Are you close to his family?? This just doesnt add up for some reason........sara
My heart goes out to you.
The doctors should be telling you in detail what is happening. I would imagine that it would have taken severe alcohol abuse to cause this type of tragedy. Maybe he has been drinking much more than you knew. It is also possible that the alcohol interacted with some other substance, perhaps as common as tylenol.
My advice to you is to stay at his side and get every detail about his condition. Is there a reason why you have not been given an explaination by his family or the doctors?
Both of you are in my thoughts, let us know whats going on. At the very least, you have our shoulders to lean on.
With love-
Matt
I will keep you and your boyfriend in my prayers what did the doctors say is wrong with him. My mother has drank beer for 20 yrs that awful.
Something is missing here. Have you asked the doctor what his diagnosis is? I'm sure that "pray" isn't the only thing he's told you. What other info did he give? Why do you suspect it's alcohol related?