I came on site last Oct. It was interesting and so I stayed.I also was preparing for a season with fibro. and knew I wouldn't be getting out as much.So what I got from here and the handful of friends carried me through the winter.
I got clean in NA and yet I'll be the first one to tell you that paths to recovery from active addiction are many.
I continue to attend meetings and social functions @ na so I can carry the message to the new commer, like we do on here.......Debra
I picked "this forum only" as I posted here almost every day the first month or two. The support, suggestions and understanding I get here is unbelievable. As I've continued in my recovery and realized how much more there is to it than simply stopping the pills, I have really worked on getting to the heart of why I needed those pills in the first place. I see a therapist (not specifically for substance abuse, but she knows everything about my prior use), and I feel I am really making progress. I had a giant case of denial about a lot of things....a lot of pent up emotions and fear and anger. Now that I've found ways to let it out, I don't feel the need to numb up anymore.
I did try N/A in the past, but just for a short time. I have used mainly MH and it has worked for me, although for many it's not enough. I do think it's very important to have some time of support group. If I start forgetting that I am an addict and have it beat then I will fail, so coming here is a reminder this is a fight for life, but the fight has gotten so much easier now:).
i use this forum constantly and google everything i can about addiction. i guess it worked for me cos i m 10 months clean today. i could not have done it without med help buddies support....maria :)
Family & this forum is what worked for me. When times were tough, I would read other's stories and realized that w/e I was going thru, someone else had experienced much worse. By understanding their triumphs & tragedies, I learned about my own condition (in an analytical way) and dissected each feeling, experience, habit, trigger, etc to it's barest level. Now, if I have a whiff of a trigger, I immediately know what it is and dismiss the impulse; simple now.
Worked well now for over 15 months so feel good about that.
Thx to everyone on this forum who contributes.
absolutely that is how i have stayed clean this long without relapsing I tried it at first with the forum only i relapsed after 6 months ..With care it has been 600+days and I keep on going .
Typically, I dont fit any of your molds......I used the computer extensively, I also leaned on my Pastors ear and would highly recommend that approach. Also some friends that are MD's and LCSW's - - - they dont like to work with friends, but I just used them as a sounding board for information to take to other forums and venues. Whatever method it takes is what you should use .... but going it totally alone is very hard.
I used this forum, therapy and my friends and family. I was blessed to find such wonderful people here who could relate and received a ton of help and support. My family was fabulous too. I'm still going to therapy every couple weeks now. It's been a great choice for me.
i pretty much just isolated myself for like 3 weeks. not even daring to go on line.
after that i just talked about it with all my family and friends and people on line. i sent my doctor a thank card after a few months. and whenever i meet new friends i always tell them about it. even my employer.
i guess just keeping it out in the open and real has been my therapy.