CHOO - YOU STILL THERE?

[grievingwidow]

Hey, hope you did not go to bed thinking I was ignoring you!  I was just busy typing another long note to you down there on the post where we were discussing the rain!  The whole time I was composing my note to you, you were obviously posting to me.  Don't want you to have your feelings hurt!  By the way, love you too!

Love, Cindy

[HUBBY CHOO]

Gatcha, Love U too!!

So sad to to Grampa mourning Granny'e passing today(Alone Now)!  Rough day!

LUV yA
Choo

[grievingwidow]

So sorry about your grandmother - I know the hardest part of the funeral was probably seeing how your grandfather was suffering.  I hope he has a strong faith and believe in heaven - that way he will have hope of being with her again.  I, unfortunately, lost my faith when my husband died and do not have it back yet.  I used to feel that God was truly with me every step I took back when my hubby first got sick, but I have not felt his presence in a long time now.  I don't know how to get my faith back, I know I won't be truly happy again until I find it though.  

Back to your grandfather  - maybe you and other family members can just try to be around a lot.  One thing that was hard for me was when everyone else went back to their own lives, but I couldn't go back to mine.  Everyone was very sweet, calling, and sending cards for maybe the first month, then it was like everyone forgot that I had nobody to go out to eat with or to the show, or just to watch television with or talk about what a shitty day it was at work.  It wasn't anyone's fault though, it is hard to know the right way to reach out to someone until you go through the same type of loss yourself.  

Well, keep me updated on your grandfather, okay?  Your grandparents obviously loved each other very much. I'll bet your granmother was a very special lady, am I right?

Love, Cindy

[Peete1974]

Ever hear of Sylvia Browne???  It might not hurt to listen to some of her work.  I know listening to her gave me new faith and renewed hope.  Good luck to both you and Choo with all of your struggles.  Take care.
Peete