DRUGS

[sharleen11]

THE DRUGIIT S ARE KILLING HIM AND HE IS SAYING ITS ME THAT MADE IT HIM GOING BACK TO ALL THAT ****  WHEN I NEVER DONE ANY THING LIKE THAT HE IS SITING HERE SLAGING ME OFF TO MY FACE SAYING NASTY **** AND BEING A ****  TO ME AND MY KIDS THINK FUNK 2 ARE AT THEY DADS AND MY BABY IS IN BED SLEEPING I ******* HATE THE MAD NESS OFF THE DRUGS I FEEL LIKE **** WHEN HE IS LIKE THIS TO ME ALL THE HATE BUT NOT TO SURE WHATI DONE LOL.............X SOMEONE HELP WHYYYY

[Pat1956100]

You have to love your children more.  You do not want them exposed to him or the fighting any longer.
He has serious issues and will only get help when he is ready.  Don't listen to his lies anymore.  He is gone now and you need to concentrate on repairing the damage that has been done to your children.
I know it's hard as you say you love him but he has chosen drugs right now.
You can't let your chlldren be around him any longer.  I hope he is ok too.

[sharleen11]

well he went last night with every thing he had in my house i KNOW its 4 the best for me and my kids. 4 every 1 that dont no he is crack and heron and no the kids are not his. he was clean 4 3 years and then i looked on his phone and see a tex to meet a dealer for drugs and when i said about this to him he never lied and that was about 6 weeks ago and last night was when we had a row and i said go and he did he has been GONE about 12 hours ago i dontno were he is his phone is brack so it is off even after all this mad ness I DO STILL LOVE HIM i just hope he is ok......

[Teresa1717]

Well said Girl!! Well said!

[JustagirlfromTX]

You have to leave for you and your babies!  I am an addict and I love my kids. I would never yell at them or in front of them and would never place the blame on someone else!  If he doesn't want help then you can't help him!  You must save yourself and your children. I understand that you love him but you have to love you more and if you don't then please love your babies more!  They don't deserve to see any of that!  Maybe you leaving with the kids will be the rock bottom that he needs!  Trust me when I say again, you can't save him, you didn't cause this and you can't fix it!  I will be praying for you!  

[theirmommie72]

well i understood what you were saying.  he seems to be very violent towards you right now either because he is needing drugs or is high off of them.  you need to call the cops and have him removed from the home.  if you are not willing to do this, leave if you can.  it's better if you remove yourself from this situation before it gets worse.  take your babies and go.  is there anyone who can come help you?  family member?? brother, friend??  this could escalate if it already hasn't.  i for one hope you are safe and okay by now.

[Here4support]

You need to leave him. Plan and simple. I know you love him but he is putting you and your children in danger. Not only that its a complete toxic, unhealthy relationship.  Ask yourself this, does he make you happy, ever? Does he love you? Honey, get your kids and get out or change the locks. He is no good. He has to be healthy for healthy relationship and if he is not willing to get well, then sorry. Not worth your kids.