Dating after getting clean

[gizzy32]

well tomorrow i have my first date since i have been clean and im pooping my pants im so nervous, lol. first date sober since i can remember and for some reason im freaking scared, not of her, but of myself. anyone have any suggestions or advice for me. i know this sounds crazy, but i think this date is going to be a big trigger for me and that's what makes me nervous. she knows about my past use, in fact we dated when i first started using, but i never had time for her and bolted. i always felt bad for this cause she was good to me. advice please, i feel like a goofy teenager again, lmao.

[marcatj]

bologna in your shoes.. it will TOTALLY help...

:-)
go get her, tiger!

[worried878]

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh!   tonight...thought it was last night and did not see you on here when I got home last night...cool beans...have fun!

[gizzy32]

no, it's tonight. lmao. im not nervous at all today now

[worried878]

still not home?  okay   whats up?   must have been a great date...good for u dude

[dove3053]

77 RESPONCES TO YOUR POST.  I think I speak for all of us when I say we love you.
Don't forget about us as you start your new life.

Dove

[worried878]

u r not home yet?   good sign   lol

[usarmymedic1]

I recomend that before you leave the house just look in the mirror and say DAMN I LOOK GOOD !!!!!!!!!! and wear a g-sting it helps lol just kiding about the g-string..

worried I get in a speedo and walk into your house lol

chris

[NautyOne]

I would really suggest adult diapers and lots of wipes.

nauty............

[worried878]

That is all I need to make me take a pill....a guy in a speedo right now walking in my back door...yuck!   what a day......or then agai maybe a good looking guy in a speedo may help?  I dont like speedos so dont wear one on your date giz and hope yours goes better than mine...wasnt bad, just boring!  I had too much to do I guess today so i did not give it a fair chance....give her a chance and do not wear a speedo...even in the summertime!

[Avalancheblanche]

Hey Giz......What size are you?  ROTF!!!!!!!

[avisg]

hahahahahahahahaha ..only if he doesnt like her

[Avalancheblanche]

Lets overnight one of those to Giz!!! HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!! LMAO!!!!

[avisg]

hahahaha i used to wear a speedo ,but then again its different on a chic .....plus i was on the swim team ....:)   i never want to see a man in a speedo ..Ohhhhhhh but worse then that have you all seen the thong guys suit the goes up over there shoulders talk about scary

[hopsing94]

eewwwwww

[Avalancheblanche]

We go to old orchard beach every summer and it is loaded with speedo wearing Canadians......VERY SCARY!  Gives me bad dreams!

[gizzy32]

ok seriously, you don't think we actually wear speedo's do you, lmao, that kinda thing would get you hurt in canada, man. that's a european thing isn't it, lol.

[hopsing94]

Well you should be confused and nervous now LOL dude she is already in love with you. Whats there to be nervous about.

[Avalancheblanche]

LMAO

[Flutterby111]

OMG, I missed alot!!!  Canadians in speedos?  YEAO!!!!!
Avis, I split from my usband for 1 year exactly, before we were married and dating was horrible....it took seeing that the grass was NOT greener on the other side to realize that we were meant to be!!! AH love.....and for the record, I'd kill him if he wore a speedo.

[flmagi]

And open doors for her. AND DO NOT WEAR SPEEDO.
5 yrs. ago when my husband moved in, I was unpacking his clothes and came accross a pair of speedos (hes latino) I held them up and said, there will be no more of these, ever.

[Avalancheblanche]

Avis, I totally agree.  And match your belt to your shoes too.  Dont be a fashion nightmare giz!

[avisg]

ohhhh wear nice shoes , i always looked at shoes

[Avalancheblanche]

Giz, I think you are rotten. I would be very worried about tomorrow night if I were you! LMAO...!!!!!

[GoingToMakeIt]

58 posts and you're worried about 1 date?!!!!!!
You are so loved here Giz.