thanks for the help! i confrunted him this weekend! well christmas day actually! he didnt deny it. and thats b\c i found it! he went to work on friday and saturday was hell for him! he was still wanting it really bad but he stayed at home and resisted! he gave me his debit card and told me to keep it for a while. im not sure how long exactly im supose to keep it! this is all new to me! my first husband was addicted to hydros. i stayed with him for many years trying to get him to stop! but i didnt succeed. but this is alot different than that! my husband is shooting! i know this is more addictive. but on the bright side, it is monday morning and he says he is not even craving it today! i hope this is true! i have stayed by his side and supported him thru this! i thank god for finding out when i did or this could have gotten alot worse! he truely wants to stay clean! i just hope i am strong enough to help him! and hope he is strong enough to stick with it! whattodo, have you stayed clean? i hope so! like i sayed this is kinda all new to me, and honestly i dont understand addiction! i dont have the addictive nature! so its really hard for me to understand when he said he knew it was wrong but just could not stop himself. was it that way for you? i think what started it all was running into an old friend he used with b4.
i know its bad but i blame him! my husband was doing so good b4 he stared running with him! thank you so much for your advise! hope you r doing well!
OPPS!!!
nice post "Whattodo"
sorry
-Dez
NICE POST Troubled !
peace,
-Dez
take him to an NA meeting asap