Did anyone know Chronic Mistake?

[chronicmistake]

I am chronics husband and am just trying to figure out where things went wrong.  I was by her side through her detox and she was deeply invested in an early recovery program..  She mentioned this web site a few times and stopped  becasue of a few harsh  It words.

I lost my wife "chonic mistake" a couple of weeks ago and and just wanted you all to know that drugs do take peoples lives everyday.  Chronic was clean but the doctors think she had some underlying heart issues that were related to possible drug use.  

Thank you for being there for her when she was apart of this community. it gave her a chance to see other have similar problems and that othes have made it to the sober side. This forum kept her busy  when she was in WD.  

Good Luck to everyone!!!

[Danielle1216]

I am so so so sorry,I have been clean for a week.I did not know your wife,but our struggles are all to similar.I have been clean a week,and I was reading this and my heart just sunk,Addiction is a horrible thing but our loved ones are the ones giving us the strength to right our wrongs,I know you are probably asking yourself ...what did i do wrong,what could i have done,....from what i can see you did the one thing us addict need to make it thru,you were there and supportive,and yes fristrations come with it,but you didnt give up,and you did NOTHING wrong or didnt need to do anything different,My husband is here for me,he has seen me thru it all,and his way is by givnig me a hard time ...ALL the time,but if for some reason something did happen to me i would know he was there till the end and i would love him on the otherside ,as i did here,you are a blessing and my prayers are with you and if you need ANYTHING leave me a mess.......Danielle

[luv4ev]

Yes - I "knew" chronic mistake. She was one of the main people I read the posts from four months ago when I was first getting clean.  And I am very sad about learning this.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I mean, the name just jumped out at me today when I was scrolling down. Your post. I am very sorry. She really helped me though. I hope peace is with you, my prayers are with you and her. This last post of yours, the girl who told her "jump" I swear I remember those posts. I was reading along with everyone. Please take care.

[chronicmistake]

Thanks for your post.  I cannot seem to stop reading all these posts.  I should have gone to Alonon to have a better understanding of addiciton but I thought I would have time for that because my wife was only 2 and 1/2 months clean.  To answer your questions, no we do not have childeren, thank god!  And yes, I am talking to a professional grief counselor.  

I could not stop thinking about my wife saying, "some girl on the post tells me to just "jump" and stop taking opiates."  So who ever that girl was, thanks for giving her hope and strength to do the right thing.   @>>>>>

[ang_811]

Im so sorry to hear of this..such a tragic story..my heart and prayers r with u and ur family..shes at peace now..take of urself..again im sorry to hear of ur loss..

this is just a reminder on how aweful and powerful this disease is....

[lifewithoutcoke]

RIP chronicmistake. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing she is no longer hurting.

This is a wake up call, no doubt. Drugs can and will kill.

[tired_of_oxy]

:( I am so sorry for your loss. This damn disease claims so many good people. We never asked for this but the reality is it can and does take lives every day.

This just hits me so hard right now. I'm struggling with pills right now and this post makes me want to quit even more.

My heart goes outbto you.?I have lost not one but three people to this addiction. It hurts so bad and there's so much unfinushed business. Please get sSome help ok? Are there children? You'll be in my prayers and I pray God eases your pain and you can be assured she's an angel in Heaven and will always be watching over you.

I'm sure your still in shock but you should consider grief counsellibg. Again so sorry and were here if you need to talk.

[my_mayberry]

i'm very sorry for your loss. this is an absolutely horrible thing to have happen.

[gnarly_1]

THIS comes as a shock she was so young.....I got to know her wile she was here and she fought a good fight im so sorry to here this this desiese takes more people then we think
thank you for letting all of us know it a somber reminder to just how serious this is
good luck and God bless......Gnarly

[Ballgame]

Geez wonder if my heart is an issue now

[chronicmistake]

Thank you for your words.  I will not be sending any personal info out out of respect for what she would have wanted.  Good luck to you all and please don't ever give up.  

[kell1977]

shocked , saddened,,,, so sorry 2 u and your family,, thoughts and prayes r with u

[hellc@mst]

Shame. My sincere condolenaces to you and your family.

So very sorry. Regards Jeremy  

[10356]

Very sorry to read of the loss of your Dear wife. my condolences to you and your loved ones.. lesa

[FassFeat]

Thanks for sharing and my deepest sympathy to you for your loss. Chronic was always very kind and did talk of your support. I am so sad to hear this news today. She was my friend and also a friend to many on here. Thanks for sharing the news and God Bless.

R.I.P Chronicmistake

[dominosarah]

Yes she did speak very highly of you~~~~

[Ballgame]

Have to admit I'm shocked. Thanks for letting us know.  Is there an obit you're willing to post? I know some peope don't like personal stuff online.

Sorry for your loss

[Ballgame]

OMG!  How sad.'
She always takes about how great her husband was.

[Emily_MHManager]

We are all so very sorry for your loss.  You will be in many people's thoughts and prayers.

~ Emily

[dominosarah]

I am deeply saddened by this.  May you find comfort in your memories~~~~~~sara

[laurel453]

she always spoke great of your support and how you were by her side during all her detox and she was doing great, it is sad, so sad that she lost her life because of this disease. I am sorry for your loss. My condolences too.

[Punkinhead75]

I'm sorry  for your loss and saddened as well.  I would talk regularly with her while she was here.  I enjoyed  chatting with her very much.  I had wondered what happened when I no longer saw her in here.  Thank You for sharing the news with us.  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.  God Bless!!

[addict3]

I am saddened to learn of your loss.

I am also glad that she was clean.

Condolences to your family.