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Ethan,
You sound like a wonderful friend, but one thing I do notice as most of my girlfriend/female friends, opposed to the male gender while going thru a life change as this one,( getting clean) "us" girls have a tendencie to "isolate" ourselfs from the world of pain that got us there, and try to work thru it, personally speaking when I am there, I thank god and am grateful I am a very loved person, as when I "close" up or isolate, my firends try to bring me out, and if i choose not to, ( for me sitting and reading a spiritual book to do my homework helps, but I have also been told alot, that I do it too much, your her freind and a loveing one, is this "time out" she needs for herself to regroup?.....just be a constant reminderof support that you are there, when she decideds to "come" out of the substances war/wounds she will know who her true friends are, and who she can talk to good luck, and she is fortunte to have a friend who cares as you do..... its a rought journey and at times we feel we need to go it alone......< that doesn't last long> but while it does, it helps us reflect, ....
Hope all is well now, you posted your awhile back....
Kathy H
Keep in mind that since you are her friend that there is only so much you can do to help her. Professional help is MANDITORY if you want to help her AND keep your friendship. Al-Anon is a great place to start.