Every 3 months he relapses, percs, oxy, etc. I am codependant but I want to see my husband recover. We love each other very much. I resent him right now and am angry. The norm. I want to heal myself but want to support him when I am again feeling stronger. I went on a codependancy site but basically they have all told me to take care of me and even to leave him, a few people said that and most say they have done so. I dont want to leave but I do know if life is insane i need to find a better place. Deep down my place is with him. I hope he recovers. I just really need an addicts point of view on supporting the addict as a codependant who is not in denial but is trying to keep the faith. Please help. Thank you.