Welcome back maybe its time to change things, what can you do different to prevent relapse? what are you doing the same that causes it?
some questions you should ask yourself!!
Aftercare? support?
If you need me I am here
Hi, a few years back I came on here and was going to quit... but, then I was going through the w/d and didn't know what i know now about the pills. I had only got down to under one pill tapering, then started back up. Now, I know just what the pills/drugs do to us!! Now, I will never take opiates ever again!! I am for me, instead of the drug companies.. : O ) I hope you really make up your mind to really quit this time, like i did.. Life is so much better to be normal... I am still getting there, but have 34 days with no Norcos! I hope to see you where I am! I really do.. and, me where others are... 60 days behind them and some with much more time.. I know i won't touch those pills ever again... That is what is so important.. To really want your life to be normal... I wish you so much happiness.. with each day you are without any drugs.. I'm glad you have come to this decision.. : O ) Congratulations!
So, I haven't posted since this orignal post in August casue I've been so deep into my rollercoaster of chasing pills. And then things got really bad. I was low on cash, my usual contacts were dry, but had one thing I've always been tempted to try - heroin. I've used this intranasally (snorted) only, on and off (mostly off) maybe several times a month.
But - the good news is I haven't had any in a couple weeks, and right now I've cut off my refill, and on just a temporary script of 3 - 50mg tramadol/day + clonidine. I've just felt tired and a bit depressed these past 4 days. Because I WAS taking 10-15 10mg norcos per day, the first few days I did take more then the 3/day...now I'm only down to 2 left.
I'm really gonna try this time. I literaly have NO access to $ therefore no access to any substances. I truly want OFF. I'm f*cking tired of lying and chasing pills, and hiding things from the people I love. Last October when I quit, my whole family was involved because my husband found my script. It felt good to have them know...but it was a letdown for them because this is the 2nd time they thought I was clean, and I got caught. I can't imagine letting them down AGAIN...I just can't.
Thank for all the support...today thru probably Monday will be the worst for me - after tonight I should be out and have nothing tomorrow...so I need hardcore support. Thank you to everyone who takes time to write to me...the support here is a godsend.
Congratulations on your decision to commit to stopping and going for the quality sobriety this time. I second the aftercare idea. Aftercare leads to quality recovery. There are many reasons we crave besides the drug itself. A good aftercare program gets us working on the entire picture. We're not responsible for having our disease, but we're responsible for participating in our recovery. That's exactly what you've done today. you're participating in getting your life back! You can actually get past the crave, and really enjoy being clean, by working on your recovery at your own comfortable pace. I had to commit to doing at least one positive thing towards my recovery each day. Logging in here, going to an NA meeting, helping someone who's wanting to get clean- just something positive each day. So far so good this time.
This is a big day in your life with this decision you've just made. You can do this. Glad you're back!
Hi and welcome back! It's good that you're here and ready to try again. I'm pretty sure most of us on here have failed before so what's important is that you're not giving up and you're here. You know what to do and what to expect. Cut ties with any connections and begin thinking about aftercare. You can do this and we're all here to support you!
Just get back on the horse and try again friend . I was wondering when you said "but when I have my usual play money and pills...I can easily go through 20-30 day if I have unlimited access. " Does this mean you are still keeping an active scipt ?? If so You need to get that cancelled. Even at a year clean I would have a hard time with being able to get doctors to give me scripts. I would probably still be chipping away and waiting for my next refill.
Hang in there and you can do this .We are rooting for you friend
I'm glad you're here posting. We all fall and when we do all we can do is pick ourselves up and try again. You can TOTALLY do this. Miss VICOURAGEOUS and SARAH always say KEEP YOUR GUARD UP and I've come to understand how important that is. ONE is to many for us that are addicted. Hang in there. You can do this..
hi there! glad you are reaching out for support!! i remember the name....and i'm glad you are stopping....don't beat yourself up about this...just move forward from here...no judgments here...the only failure is NOT trying again....not because you slipped....we are here to support you in whatever way you need....be kind to yourself....you are worth it. :))