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Introducing VICourageous as your new Co-Community Leader

working alongside CoCL's Dominosarah and gnarly_1 .  We look forward to working with everyone in the Addiction: Substance Abuse Community.

WELCOME!

Cheryl
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WOW just look at all the love and support you've gotten, Vic!!!

It goes without saying you will be a wonderful co-leader in our community.  You have the sweetest spirit and a heart that just exudes joy♥

I was happy to finally understand by reading this thread that all these years you thought "lol" meant "lots of love", because I too must admit I scratched my head about that more than once on a serious post....hahaha!
When I first got back on the computer in 2012 after a few years of not being on it at all, my family kept sending me emails with <3 in them.  I was so brain fogged I didn't know it was the latest computer "lingo" for "heart you" or "I love you".  I didn't truly get it until I turned my head side ways...LOL

It has been wonderful to see your added presence on our forum here....and I couldn't be happier for you, Vic♥
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Oh Vicki, that's perfectly alright. I'm so happy to hear your 3 years clean! Yay!!!
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4522800 tn?1470325834
I DID NOT WANT TO BUMP THIS BUT I HAD TO REPLY BACK!

First I want to tell Frogger I did not mean to say HIS but HER! Sorry I was thinking of someone else when I did that.

Spider. I Miss U so much on here. PLZ check in and do your thing. I LOVE the way you write and the since of Humor behind it. You are loved dearly.

Kansas..Maybe this site will help you think about coming off those pain pills for good! That is if your pain can be controlled in other ways. You will be surprised how many do this with out them kind of meds.

Thank You all Again!
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I'm new, but you are the first person who spoke to me, and what you say comes across so well, from the heart.  You are great for your new post.  I just read one of your replies, to Tramadol Trap I believe, wherein you reminded me of a very good saying I learned in AA "You are only as sick as your darkest secret ."  I may have quoted wrongly, but it is SO true.
Right now I am fighting feeling so down on myself for getting myself in my current mess.  I know better.  But like others have said, I may be making the whole ordeal I'm getting ready to go through worse in my mind than it will be.  Anyway, enough of me, me, me.  Tired of me.
Congratulations to you.  You do have a gift,
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vic.....I was just talking about you yesterday again.  All good.  So proud of you and happy about your successes .  ....you've come a looooong way baby.  You are one strong, caring and inspirational woman.  You are going to be awesome at your new "post".......YOU DA (wo)MAN!  Grats chickie....I'm sorry I've not been around......living in my "headspace".......someone locked the door behind me, so I thought I'd just stay there for awhile.   Miss you too hon....glad you're more visible lately.  You are AWESOME! ((((8))))spidey hugs xo
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THANK YOU ALL AGAIN FOR THE SUPPORT!

WE ARE FAMILY!

LETS HAVE SOME FUN ON THE WAY!
LOL LOL LOL LOL....lol lol lol lol lol..I get it now!!

Bless
Vickie
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Y'all are cracking me up!! I hope you all have a great evening!

Good night all~
Sherry

Btw~ for the longest time I didn't even know what OMG meant, and when I finally figured it out, I really was like OMG.  Guess I need one of those "internet lingo for dummies" books, eh???
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4522800 tn?1470325834
PS..Frogger said, his daughter said that LOLO is "Lots of Love"???
However, that one does look like it!

LOLO LOLO LOLO to Everyone!!!
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1742220 tn?1331356727
ha ha i know huh?  but everyone knows what a good heart you have Vickie, so im sure they got your intentions.  i wouldn't lose any sleep over it!!!

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4522800 tn?1470325834
I am LMAO! All this time I was telling them Lots of Love and they thought I was Laughing at them..OMGosh..I sure hope these do not come back around on me!

Thanks Meg & Deb!

I guess I will just give them some (((Hugs))).
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1742220 tn?1331356727
ha ha ha!   yes, Vickie i realized a while back that you meant 'lots of love' because at first i could not figure out why you would be laughing at some of the things you said to me!!!!!!!!  i think i wrote about the acronym in a j, too.  as far as i know, and i'm not the expert, any form of 'lol,' lower case, upper case, or what not, means 'laughing out loud'.  however, in the lexicon it has come to mean a lot of things, informally (imo) and a lot of people seem to just use it as punctuation when they don't necessarily mean its funny.  they just don't know what to say or something like that.  but your version, 'lots of love' is very sweet and endearing.  i like it!  keeps you guessing

lots of love,

Meg-Pie
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A quick note on LOL: While most people use this as "laugh out loud," there are people who use it as "lots of love." This can lead to unfortunate cases where you end up "laughing" at someone's tragic news.
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4522800 tn?1470325834
Ya! And where are those Two??

Maybe they are just Lurking??? lol lol lol
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4522800 tn?1470325834
Meg-Pie to the rescue!

Girl what does LOL mean??
what is lol mean?
how about Lol ?

Sarah and I have these all mixed up and I thought it meant one thing and she thought it was something else. We have to find the truth. I always go lol and I am meaning Lots of Love NOT Laughing out loud!

Is there a Right & Wrong here. I mean it has to all mean one thing not 2-3 or more.
Hugs!
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1742220 tn?1331356727
Vickie you are the Uber Community Leader!!! you go, girl!!!!  lol AND lots of love!  and Domino and gnarly, love what you guys do too.  <3
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1235186 tn?1656987798
hey Vickie a huge congrats and kudos.
I guess this means we will be seeing a lot more of you.
that's a good thing.
I also always wondered why you were always "loling."
laughing out loud.
laughing online.
but in your mind you were sending lots of love.
and back at ya girl.
lots of love.
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4522800 tn?1470325834
OK!
I will Pray that all gets better for You & Your Family. We will talk soon!

Just try to get back ASAP. You & Your Wise Words of Support is missed around here. It has been a bit on the slow side for awhile. WE need Everyone to come back..Hahahaha!!

Bless
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I will Vicki, I'm just going through so much right now. I was thinking today, there's no way I could have managed my current situation on drugs. I've been helping some local people, but I miss you all. When I have the strength, I'll be around more again. I just popped in and saw there is a new community leader, had to say hi.
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4522800 tn?1470325834
What Timing!
I just got back on and seen this right away.

I OWE A LOT TO YOU & YOUR SUPPORT ALL THE WAY!
You have always been one of my Heroes. Tony, you have taught me so so so much and I will forever be grateful for that. NOW just get your ash back on here. Your Wisdom is needed out here.

Nothing Changes here. I am still the same ME and WE all need each other out here! SO do the new ones!
The more help the better!

Bless
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You've been a community leader a long time, now it's official. Guess that makes you certifiable.
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Very good news!  Good luck to you Vic!   xo xo (hugs and kisses). LOL
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Congrats Vic!!  Can't think of anyone more deserving!  you are so much help on here!  xoxoxo  
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1530493 tn?1410056636
How bout this Vickie the < sign and then the 3 .....<3

still love your LOL though. ..lots of love. ..think I'm going to start doing that to my kids.   I still send them text messages just as my spell check believes they should be written. ..I drive them crazy. ..I like it that way :)

Sara. ..my disabled daughter taught me all my computer skills. ..ahaha,  don't admit that to many :D
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4522800 tn?1470325834
OH!! WOW!! Now that is Cool!!

I tried but it does nothing. I held down the the ALT and did some more things and nothing..Darn!

:(:(:(
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