my stepson has been an addict for several years, we had no idea, he doesn't live with us and he's been on his own or living with friends, or staying with is mom in FLA for the last few years. Apparently his mom knew but chose not to tell us, so we've been giving him $$ over the course of the last few years to go towards helping him, and now we find out that was all a lie. He called the day before heading to Rehab in FLA, hey dad I'm an addict have been for years, I have a chemical imbalance...so he's now in rehab in FLA, and we are left trying to figure out what happens next and feeling so foolish for having never known this was going on. How do you ever believe them again?? He is going to come back to a bad situation, we think his girlfriend is also using, to the same friends, etc.? He called after a few days of being in rehab, said it was no big deal, he's watching movies and eating? so we are led to believe he's not taking this seriously at all. -- my husband isn't sleeping, and blaming himself - not sure what to do.