There are lots of meetings in your area: http://www.nagulfcoastfla.org/Meetings.htm
You might try AA too. These days I go exclusively to AA, even though my alcohol problems were minor compared to my addiction to opiates and cocaine.
The NA stance on alcohol is "Alcohol is a drug. We are people with the disease of addiction who must abstain from all drugs in order to recover." Thus, if you're in line with NA's thinking, you also qualify for membership in AA, since its "only requirement of membership is a desire not to drink."
CATUF
1601
I'm not sure I agree. Your recovery is the most important thing but you don't want to take any drama to the meetings if you can avoid it. Are there really not other meetings to go to where you live?
I agree. If you feel like going to an NA meeting is going to help you in your recovery, then you should definitely go and not worry if he is there. Don't even look at him or talk to him unless he tries to talk to you. Just make it obvious that you are there to benefit from the content of the meeting and that it has nothing to do with your prior relationship. Good luck!
Girl yall are broke up and you need to focus on your recovery and not his. It is obvious that he has moved on and so should you. You never know yall may end up being friends and end up helping each other in the end. Please just focus on your recovery for now!!!
Lisa
Jacksonville,FL