Hi everybody,
for about 6 months me and my girlfriend have been on a variety of opiates and opiate doses ranging from 20-60mg a day of hydrocodone. We had a couple of detoxes in between where we planned to go back to taking the pills maybe once a week instead of daily, and that quickly turned back into 2 per day, then 3, then 4, and then anywhere between 4-6 from then on. Anyways, our last day of taking a significant dose was 9 days ago. For the next 5 days, we took 1 to 1 and a half pills, split in half, throughout the day. 3 Days ago was our first day completely clean. We realized that what started as "summer fun" has lasted all the way up through December, plus the planning our days around pills just ends up being really depressing, annoying, and limiting.
It's day 3 for me, and I feel fine. Pretty fantastic for being sober, actually, after so long of being on the opioids. My girlfriend, on the other hand, seems to be in a constant nightmare, and nothing that we do (barring taking more pills) can take her out of it. She has been battling depression and anxiety for many years now, and her doc started her on Paxil and Xanax about 3-4 months ago. Part of the reason that we started on the opiates to begin with, was that she was having depression and anxiety, and opiates seemed to clean them up completely. Right before we started to use the opiates, she had a death in the family that took an even bigger toll on her. I figured since it was summer, and they seemed to be an effective cure, a couple of months later we could kick them and she would be over the death. However, we've both been clean for 3 days and the physical withdrawals have almost entirely gone away for me.
I figured now that we could finally go out and do things without feeling like complete crap over the past 9 days, her attitude towards life in general would change for the better and we could move on. But pretty much ever since the physical withdrawals went away, she has been massively depressed about pretty much everything in her life, and nothing I say, do, or recommend can help her. She doesn't have the drive to go out anywhere or do anything as much as I encourage her, so we're limited to bed, and couch+TV, and being forced into a small living space is taking a toll of its own.
Any advice for how to deal with the depression accompanying PAWS, or how it should last for someone given our situation? (dose and how long we've been using)
Thanks.