This is my first time on the forum. I have been denying this for years. I have an addictive personality...my mother is an alcoholic. So was my grandmother. Alcohol was never the issue for me...actually drugs were never an issue for me until about 4 or 5 years ago when I met my boyfriend (that sounds horrible - it wasn't his fault). He has legitimate adhd and takes dexamphetamine for it...i remember taking one little 5 mg for the first time so long ago and feeling so great. It lasted all day. I had never felt more talkative, pretty, outgoing, energized....but I didn't really need it. Then I took it once in a while if I had to stay up for a paper or something (I was in college at the time). Would take his or take whoever's...others took it too. I guess the last 2 years it has become a horrible problem. We live together and I don't know what it is...I just can't help myself. He drug tested me once, he even bought a safe, I feel like I have let him down SO much but he loves me so he forgives me. I don't want to do this to him OR to myself but I don't know how to stop. I have a prescription for adderall now and I can't take the prescribed dose (20 mg/day) because it does absolutely nothing for me. So it is gone in a week. How can I stop this? In every other part of my life I am completely normal...it's like my big secret. It's horrible...I want to stop I just don't know how.