Hey there.....sounds like you and your hubby are doing really well right now. There are A LOT of opinions about how long you should stay on subs. Heck, there are A LOT of opinions about even going on subs ha!!
But, you and your hubby were on pills prior to going to see this sub dr, right? So, is there any aftercare or outpatient support thru this dr?
That would be an "ideal" sub program. But, if not, while you are un-learning addiction behaviors and finding a new lifestyle, it is important to make new friends that are in recovery, learn to cope with all this life throws at us by surrounding yourself with friends/fellowship of others who also understand addiction and are choosing to live their life without ANY drugs.
You may learn or glean some insight from reading about other Medhelp forum members and their experiences with getting off subs. Here's an article from our health pages:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Addiction/Members-experiences-coming-off-of-suboxone--/show/473?cid=66
In my own opinion, educating yourself thoroughly about the strength of subs and setting a goal for tapering and a timeframe to wean off them is REALLY important. Lifestyle changes can be made while you are on them so you will have some new habits and strength in your daily life when you DO finally get off the subs.
Some people stay subs for just a short time.....like 21 days to a month....
others who had a heavy heroin habit, may choose a longer timeframe to be on subs.......it's VERY individual, of course.....the main thing is......inform yourself....you and your hubby set your own goal after you learn some more. I was in an outpatient program where I saw other sub users STAY on them.....for over a year or more.......that's NOT their purpose imo.....it's to assist......if you will.....and I'd hope this sub dr of yours would also have some helpful things you two can do on this road to recovery.
Addiction cannot be "cured"......just put into remission and arrested.....
joy can be ours.....with a lot of hard work.....and a lot of changes. If we are honest, open to change and willing....the SKY's the limit~