thank you and I hope people here at this site were able to answer your questions even though some of the answers may of been very hard for you to swallow.
You touched on something close to me and that is how Al-Anon was not able to help you to your satisfaction.
I work as a Volunteer at Al-Anon, I have been trying to gain employment there in the hopes of further education to those non-addicts desperately seeking help and answers to very tough questions.
I was just offered an interview but it is in Toledo Ohio and that is just to far away. I will continue to try to find employement at Al-Anon here in Michigan. I think I could be an asset to them the trick is trying to get them to feel the same way.
good luck to you