Thanks for your coment. Yes this is one friend that is well worth it. It is sad but true about TRUE friends...there is an obligation to help them find there way back. Funny wel all had no problem driving to HELL ....now we need to find the car keys and directions back to sobriety. I hope he is the kind of person to stop and ask to get pointied back in the right diection.
Your right I will concentrate on Him. Just venting...no one believed what was happening just needed to get it out. I probably will find out today from my other biz partner if the meeting is a go. FYI i found out a piece of info from him that a couple weeks back my friend wanted to meet. I wasn't told cause he thought it was just a ploy to get a rise out of me. So i haope it happens He has'nt wanted to talk to me for 7 months and now he all of a sudden wants to meet BUT he says it's about the BIZ. The biz he quit 7 months ago...might be for $ who knows but it a good excuse to meet at any rate.
our names are kinda similar!.....you do need to quit worrying about that crazy witch..and help your friend if he will let you...a good friend of mine went schizo on me not too long ago....no drug use she is just a nut...cant do drama so i removed myself....she was not an old dear friend tho so there are degress of what you will put up with depending on your history with a friend....some i would go to the ends of the earth for..some arent worth it...u know u only have a handful or really good friends when it comes down to it...this i have found out when i went thru all of this...
GOOD, I'm glad you took the copy and paste to them. I know you will be fine. Stay strong!
swtbreezie
bro, its obvious she is a lost cause,and she is nothing to you, so why dontcha just worry boutcha friend. did he agree to a meeting? have you talked to him at all yet? you have to quit worrying about what she does, we can only control our OWN actions. so try to save your friend, thats wut friends do, but dont let her get to you like this. sound like your biz partner knows you are in control of yourself , so put that drama behind ya. move on to trying to help your friend. good luck n keep us posted
sorry for typos ...i get all shaky when I'm pissed off
I actually had his biz phone turned off and I did show the IM's to our other friend and biz partner who by the way had convinced him that I was the crazy one. Thank God i did that and i alsi let him her a nasty message SHE she directly to me. HE was in shock and apologized to me for his doubts and wants to tell his brother the truth also. I know I don't need this but like I said the other day " i may a promise to my best friend A kid I grew up with like a brother...that any bad ever happened that we won't quit on each other." I have good support sysem..my girl my family anf my other biz partner. They want me to Quit and move on but I will never forgive myself If i don't try.
i know what this feel like i have been in a situation somewhat the same i had a friend i used with and when she got clean she thought her **** didnt stink she called cps on me ect she was so evil i cant stand people like that we all have our own timing for getting clean when she used she was off the hook she would spend all her time doctor hunting she also had three kids i have never done half the things she did people can be so judgemental. just try and stay away from this girl and continue to do what's wright good luck.
Personally I would block her you dont need this and copy and paste the IM's and bring them to your partner. You don't need this in your life if you are clean and sober.
GOOD LUCK
swtbreezie