hey ,you know ,my husband came with me ,at the angle you fear of taking,the more aggressive angle,and he saved mmy life.Dont be afraid to tell someone how you feel ,especially someone you love,the fact that she is pregnant,i would and should think it makes you more aggressive,you need to protect her and your child,if it makes you look like an ******* to someone who isnt serious enuffabout straightening their lives out so what!You can be supportive by caring,it doesnt mean your nagging.theres two people there now ,and one is completely innocent to the world,methadone is beneficial thru her prgnancy,if shes on it ,she casnt get high,ifshe wasnt ,stone sober clean she would be more likely to continue...painpills was my thing i went to a methadone clinic 2 yrs ago and just got off 1 week ago today,You can never do too much ,when you love someone,and tho you look like your naggin and ridin her,when she looks back she will appreciate that it was a crucial step in her recovery...Danielle
Have her read what you posted. If that doesnt get her thinking right bro I dont know what will. You know its up to her. Theres not alot you can do. Shes gotta get the point you did when you quit. She gotta be in that mind set. For some of us we get help for your addiction in time and for some of we dont. Its really sad. Im sorry your in this spot man. I really am. It hits home because I know how my ex wife was feeling, just like you...
Beating her addiction is going to be up to her..You can't change someone or force them to want to change..No one can tell you whether or not its a losing battle but her. You should tell her how you feel and how worried you are..Good luck!!