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Porn addiction

Ok so here it goes I'm 19 and been masturbating to porn since I was around 12/13 I have always watched it and believe I am addicted to it.
When having sex with women I find it hard to constantly stay erect and especially to ejaculate, I have never been capable of ejaculating inside a women and ejaculating in front of a women has proven very difficult I literally have to go at the speed of romping rabbits to actually get anywhere however in the presence of porn I can ejaculate within minutes, the longest I have ever gone without porn is around 11 days, so does anyone have any help on what to do to prevent myself from watching porn, I know your going to say stop watching it, it's simple but it's like telling a chain smoker to stop smoking, not gonna happen right. So ye anyway help, advice etc. Would be grately appreciated.
Many thanks in advance to everyone
Lewis
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GOOGLE VIDEO -  erectile dysfunction and porn - watch the video series.

Check out this thread on medhelp with lots of guys who have porn-induced ED. Read the stories.
You can find my first few posts if you want to understand the biology and the recovery process.

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Mens-Health/22-with-porn-induced-erectiledysfunction/show/469209?page=1
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Thank you Jeff for info, great help, only I live in uk :/ any help on that?
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There are groups similar to AA and NA--  groups like SA, or SLA (sex and love addicts), for people with compulsive sexual behaviors and relationship addictions. Most major cities have chapters and meetings, and you can likely find their literature for sale on the web by searching for sex addiction or sex and love addiction.

The symptoms that you describe are common for people with addictive sexual behaviors.  People get to a point where they can only respond sexually to tightly controlled situations,  where true intimacy is not an issue, and they feel like they have control.  

There are also residential treatment programs;  the one at The Meadows in Arizona is one of the more well-known programs.
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