Has anyone had any experience with them? Know if they work?
My boyfriend's mom doesn't know anything about them, but she wants to confront him with her husband and daughter. I explained to her that it's a little like an intervention. I know it may not be a good time unless I plan on being there, because mainly all of her information is coming from me and I don't want it to backfire on us and push him away further. He and I aren't on good terms right now, because, despite the fact that he ADMITS he has a problem (last Tuesday was the last time) and at times has stated he wants to quit, he's at the place right now that he's going to do what he wants to do, which is drink! He's mad at me, partly because I suspect he's being forced to choose between me and the alcohol. I don't want to have an intervention be attempted at the wrong time when he may be angry about it and shut us all out, and then we have no leverage. He loves me dearly, and I'm hoping that with a little bit of time and space and lots of opportunity to think on his part, that he'll call and try to make up. I'm hoping, anyway, that it's not too late for us. I really think that with him wanting this relationship to work out, we might have some leverage to confront him with his problem.
I know you can hire an interventionist, and I've heard it to be done, but I've never actually heard of it being done by anyone...third party or not. So I'm looking for any experienced opinions and thoughts on that matter.