Relly need to talk

[mel1121809]

I am having a terrible day. In about 1/2 hr my husband and I have to file bankruptcy. I am so stressed out over this, all I  want to do is have a drink. It is also his birthday so I have all that pressure on me to make him feel special and have a perfect b-day. How am I going to get through this? I wish I was a stronger person. I can feel the difference in my body, aches and pains, although I don't know if it is from alcohol or stress. ANy opinions????

[MJIthewriter]

I sent you a pm with some links I found when researching. You didn't answer me when I last asked, so you probably weren't interested, but I didn't feel right not sending them anyway... I hope they help. You can always delete the pm if that wasn't what you wanted.

[BANDIDA]

Claiming bankruptcy is not the end of the world! If it is the end or solution to your $$$ worries and will relieve a burden then so be it! Then U can have the time and emotional and mental strength  to tackle UR drinking. It will all be OK and take it all 1 day at a time! Good Thoughts and prayers are being sent UR way by me!