fighting alcoholism with persistent arousal disorder

[ginnyvaet66]

I have persistent sexual arousal disorder for 16 years was married but iwas fine if celibate little activity. A year ago perimenopause started hormones wacky. I had need to literally masterbate all day. 15 orgasms in one day, then drink vodka and wait for three hours 15 more orgasms if i am lucky my clit would go down. I would usually get break but then it went right up again no relaxation, before it would go down and no alcohol for oneq week.  The pgad is getting worse. This week to dull the throbbing in my clit i drank all week. Now i have no energy to spend all day masterbating,so i drink to avoid the throbbing. I took a swig of vodka,xanax and ambien and only slept three hours, right side is hurting. Mypgad is killing me no cure and amny women kill themselves over it

[10356]

Hi Ramsden. Welcome to the forum. Thank you for saying what is helping for you. Others that deal with this will find that info invaluable.. You are on a alcohol forum so I was wondering if the booze makes this condition worse ? The original poster is drinking and taking Ambian.. I had read some meds can exasperate the situation. I could not imagine how this has impacted your life Truly as I said earlier my heart goes out. I'm Grateful that you found the Gabapetin/Nurotin helps ! Have you tried other things that have had any success for future peps and the original poster. Anyway Thanks again for your input and I hope we hear more from you.. lesa

[Ramsden5044]

Hi I have PGAD too I got it from an SSRI and I am controlling my symptoms somewhat with gabapentin. It has truly impacted every aspect of my life.

[10356]

Hi Ginnyvart66.. Welcome to the forum. I had no idea what this was so I looked it up.. My Goodness my heart goes out too you !! I have no idea what the treatment for this disorder would entail but the alcohol and the Xanax mixed with the ambien is doing damage to other parts of your body and mind.. There is no way to surgically manipulate nerve ending too help ? Anyway the drinking is adding to your depression and your helplessness over your medical problem.. I hope you speak with your Dr. let them know how badly you are dealing with this maybe you can get into a detox then medical help.. I looked up treatments for this disorder There are medications peps take that exacerbate this condition The Alcohol mix may also be doing this.. You really need to speak with your Dr. I will copy and paste what I found in treatments I'm sure there is more info if I were to do deeper research. I'm glad you found us You may also want to check out other parts of the forum such as sexual health Hopefully you can find someone else that deals with this disorder and can support each other..  I hope the info is helpful.. lesa



PGAD treatment usually focuses on symptom management.

Psychological approaches, such as cognitive behavioral therapy and support groups, have been helpful for some women. With these methods, women can learn more about what triggers or worsens their PGAD and learn coping techniques, such as distraction. Women can also learn to manage the stress, anxiety, and embarrassment that often accompany PGAD. (Often, these feelings are triggers themselves and worsen symptoms.) Some women with severe depression accompanying PGAD do well with electroconvulsive therapy.

There are also physical approaches to consider. Anesthetizing agents or ice applied directly to the genitals may numb the area and relieve symptoms. Physical therapy focusing on the pelvic floor is another option.

In some cases, surgery to correct nerve issues is helpful.

Making medication changes is another strategy. This can involve stopping medication that is believed to be a trigger. It could also mean adding a medication, such as an antidepressant.

[CRSeaside]

It's usually not good to mix pills with Alcohol. Are you looking into Sobriety ?
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