thank you .i know your right but after 55 yrs of marriage its hard to let him go to nursing home, he hates them. he,s 85 and im 76 . i will have to make decisions soon.
I feel so sorry for you. I think that this is too much for you to have to handle on your own and you need help and respite for your own health. You will need to get in a carer either a relative or a professional. And admission to a specialist nursing or rest home may not be too far away.