What you write is classic symptoms and behaviors of one getting more and more into the depth of their anorexia. Isolation and depression are also common features. What you need to do is ask yourself what keeps you in this relationship. Her threat of leaving the relationship is really her eating disorder talking. By you choosing to stay in the relationship or not do an intervention to ask her to get help, you are actually colluding with her to stay ill and keep yourself stuck and controlled by her anorexia. Seek out a support group for family/friends or therapy for yourself. The only person any of us can change is ourselves. To learn more about anorexia and treatment options, visit the bella vita website. Best, Dr Patricia Pitts Los Angeles, CA
cook food for her and plan a romatic dinner at home at least ones at week . she will eat even if you dont know how to cook.try to be romatic....then wait one or two week and tell her how important is for you her heatlh and that u love her and blah ,blah.....try to be supportive and the most important start sayin the you lover the way she is thats why u are with her and want her to be healthy .
ohmg!! :( oh dear.. oh dear.. you really really need to help her or eles she will not stay alive for long time :( and ill try to help you ^^
why dont you try to take her out and make her feel your love?? like tell her that you loved how she looked like before when she was healthy talk to her about it and try to take herout for dinner? like for example yhu could say, why dont you rest today and ill invite yhu for dinner n yhu can eat as much as yhu can with me dear.. and yhu should be sure she eats infront of yhu ~ its verry important and make her eat chocolate and candies it will help :) yhu should know that all the anorexic people think about is food
thats whyshe cook to make her need for food get less.. talk to her more about how beutiful her skin looked like before she became thin. and make her feel yhu will always love her nomatter what.