I wish I could suggest support groups, but I live in northern Virginia, and found none here. Maryland tends to be more progressive -- maybe there are some support groups where you are. They're easier to find than one individual. Good luck, and keep posting, almost neighbor (of course, with my level of anxiety, we might as well be on different planets, but oh well).
I see a therapist and he suggested an anxiety buddy to help push each other
You need a therapist, not someone to obsess over it with. This site will help you vent, and having a bud is great, but you need a professional who can push you to get better.