Let me get this straight. Your DAUGHTERS boyfriend is leaving for the Air Force and she's been dreading this day, as would anyone involved in a relationship, so that all sounds pretty rational so far. You state that YOU are having all this anxiety due to HIM leaving because YOU don't know how emotional SHE will be and this is upsetting YOU to the point of being a "wreck," feeling like vomiting and that YOU might need a Xanax..............
Lady, you need to pull your head out................
Keep your hands out of the Xanax jar and BE THERE for your daughter in WHATEVER emotional state she may be in!
Jasus! Who's the adult here?
Greenlydia