Hi there,
I have very similar experience to yours this spring too. I had a very very difficult time believing that catching HIV through oral is extremely rare. What I think would be helpful to you is to remember that that odds of getting HIV through unprotected receptive oral with ejaculation with a partner CONFIRMED to be HIV + is 1 in 10,000 those odds do not get less because you had more than one encounter. I know its scary because while they can say its extremely low risk they can't say no risk. That is what scared me, the fact that there still was a risk, however so slight. I think its great that you took the initiative to go get tested with your partner. Thats not the easiest thing to do. However, I think you need to take comfort in the fact that your partner tested negative and told you that his last sexual contact was 8 months ago. Also, IF and that is a huge IF he were to be positive that DOES NOT automatically mean you are positive. But from what you describe it does not seem like you need to worry. I do think a test at the 3 month mark is warranted for your own peace of mind not because you might have HIV. I hope this helped please message me if you need to chat ok?
-A
This form of anxiety (health) is quite common in this forum. First off, take comfort in the fact that the people at the clinic told you you have almost a ZERO chance of getting it even if the person was HIV positive. You also had protected sex, so the people on the HIV Prevention Forum have probably told you not to worry. I know it is easier said than done, especially when we are worried about our health! Keep us posted!