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How can I get my 27-year old son to realize that he has social anxiety?

my 27 year old did manage to graduate from college  with a degree and says he wants to get  job, but he doesn't really try, despite  all the suggestions we give  about how to get a job.  I even  got an interview scheduled for him and at the last minute he wouldn't go.  He says he has applied, but he has no previous experience and did no internships in college.  The real problem is that he is afraid to talk to people.  He won't even say hi to my friends who visit, won't initiate any conversation, doesn't talk about his feelings. Never has.  He blames everyone else for why he can't get a job. He won't consider working at "lower level" jobs. He spends most of his day on the computer, has no friends, though he says he has friends on the internet.  He is espousing a lot of  "Alt-right" ideas, which is a little scarey.  If his Dad kicks him out, he wouldn't be worried at all about sleeping under a bridge or in a campsite.  He is self-sufficient outdoors. How can we get him to recognize that he has a problem? He'll live such a  narrow, unhappy  life if he doesn't change.
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We only have your side of this, but assuming what you say is true, you need to get him into therapy.  A professional psychologist can evaluate him better because of the emotional distance.  But know that if your son is becoming dangerous and the psychologist learns this, duty will require reporting it.  Again, this could just be a case of him not feeling like he wants to be part of the world as most people live it, but taking what you say as the truth, he needs therapy and quickly before he disappears into his mind too deeply to emerge.
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