my 27 year old did manage to graduate from college with a degree and says he wants to get job, but he doesn't really try, despite all the suggestions we give about how to get a job. I even got an interview scheduled for him and at the last minute he wouldn't go. He says he has applied, but he has no previous experience and did no internships in college. The real problem is that he is afraid to talk to people. He won't even say hi to my friends who visit, won't initiate any conversation, doesn't talk about his feelings. Never has. He blames everyone else for why he can't get a job. He won't consider working at "lower level" jobs. He spends most of his day on the computer, has no friends, though he says he has friends on the internet. He is espousing a lot of "Alt-right" ideas, which is a little scarey. If his Dad kicks him out, he wouldn't be worried at all about sleeping under a bridge or in a campsite. He is self-sufficient outdoors. How can we get him to recognize that he has a problem? He'll live such a narrow, unhappy life if he doesn't change.