This past year I have experianced 7 deaths within my family and friends..My only sibling passed away in march, my dad in july, my Aunt in december and in between each a cousin, great aunt and a friends son. Prior to all of this happening i had experianced depression..but when my brother and then my dad passed away, I tried to take care of my mom and get her through her grief(by the way, Im a 45 yr old female). I ended up moving in with her, we both went to grief therapy, it did nothing for me but take my money..now that my mom is feeling better and moving on with her life. I seem stuck on the three deaths that affected me the most. My job performance is suffering, I broke off my 5 yr engagement, I dont find joy in anything, not even my grandchildren. Im not just sad, Im feel like ive lost control of who I am. My general dr thinks that Im now showing signs of some sort of "bi polor" issues, Ive been taking meds for anxiety and they seemed to help for a while, but I just recently started having major panic attacks that scared me to death..I do not have feelings of hurting myself, but I cant stop crying, every minute Im alone, I cry..I thought at first it was just because I helped my family get through there grief and now its my turn, but this is more then just grief..I guess I have a simple question to a long long story..is it possible to become bi-polor due to stress, OCD issues (oh, after my dad died, I seem to talk non stop, even when im alone, i also have taken an almost "unhealthy" turn to germs and washing my hands to the point of the skin drying out and peeling off...) Im also a pain management patient, that up until the deaths in my family, the pain was controlled, now, its way out of control..and Im also diabetic, so I deal with blood sugar levels that go way up and way down. Im embarressed to talk to anyone else for fear of mentioning the bi polor issues, I dont want to be crazy, but Im afraid of just loosing it someday out in public, work, or with friends..I can sometimes barley keep it together long enough to get to my car or a restroom so I can cry, it doesnt matter where Im at..I feel stuck in the two seperate days that my brother and my dad died. I didnt get to say goodbye to my baby brother(he was 39), I held my dads hand and kissed his cheek when he passed and i relieve both of those days,everyday, all day..please help..I have an appointment with a "shrink" that can determine if Im in need of meds, or meds and therepy or maybe I am going out of my mind..I wear my emotions on my sleeve and because of all of this, I have no one to turn to, to talk too..Im very scared ....Im sorry this is long, it should be longer to explain more, but I just dont have the words to explain it all..what should I do? I m so very tired, alone and scared.