Thank you mam...sorry for rather late reply. Mam the problem with me is that i keep on thinking is that if test was not done right. If there is a small ulcer in my mouth i think of it as HIV issue. Even though my test prove to be negative. Every time i try to live a normal life with my wife. Some ulcer or some sore throat stops me. It is very difficult for me to get over this. Please suggest
As your doctor told you, this is an anxiety/brain issue, not an HIV issue. It's not uncommon for people to experience severe anxiety after a sexual encounter they feel guilty, regretful, and shameful about, especially if that person is in a committed relationship. That fear presents itself as worry over contracting an STD, like HIV.
You need to continue working with your mental health provider, preferably a therapist, who can help you change the way you think about HIV.