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real advice pls!!

ive been dating this one young lady for about a yr now and for some reason i cant get over this sex axiety and its affecting our relationship i know my girlfriend is pretty fraustrated with me right now everytime i get ready to insert my penis into her virgina i loose my erection its pretty fraustrating for me right now ive tried everything from levitra to over the counter drugs it will not help my problem what advice could you give me to help with this problem?
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It sounds like performance anxiety since you can get an erection. This comes from putting too much pressure on yourself, and nervousness.  Pay close attention to how you feel at the moment, I'm sure you are nervous or afraid you won't perform well. Seeing a therapist would help you to overcome this, and also talk to your doctor about the anxiety. Ask your girlfriend to be patient while you work on this.  Take care.
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Sorry, but I don't understand your response. Perhaps you could explain it to me.
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See a urologist. The problem could be physical rather than mental.
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