There is overlap in the behaviors exhibited by children with fragile x and autism spectrum disorder so it is great that you will get a differential diagnosis. Regardless of the diagnosis I would recommend looking for specialized clinical help. Specifically I would look for a clinician who has certification in Behavior Analysis (BCBA). You can find people in your area of the country who are certified by going to the following website: http://www.bacb.com/consum_frame.html and type in your state. I do not know what services are available in your area but the best outcomes are found with early intensive behavioral intervention. Hopefully your diagnostic team can put you in touch with treament professionals and options.
Thank You so much for the reply. It is hard to go through things like this, its nice to know that you are not alone. I am glad your son is getting so much therapy. I hope I will get the same for my son, there isnt very many services where I live.
My son just turned three years old. He has been in O/T, S/T and Play Therapy for 1 1/2 years. He is our 5th child and I knew when he was about 18 mos old that something was not quite right when the words he had learned he could no longer say. He had also started having severe meltdowns, babbling, flapping his hands, echolalia, lining things up, obsessed with blinking lights, ceiling fans, excessive sensory issues, and the list goes on. We had him enrolled in the infant toddler program to receive services, and we had to become strong advocates for him because alot of times we would hear, "Oh, he has excellent eye contact, he is so smart, he smiles, etc. (ad nauseam)." He has now graduated from that program but still receives his therapy services at the clinic, and is eligible for services one day a week through the school district. He has an appt scheduled for next month with a developmental pediatrician. He has made great strides, but now new things are developing, such as aggressive and other inappropriate social behaviors, hyperactivity, etc. I have been advised that even with a "diagnosis" for autism of any sort, his treatment would probably remain the same. It has been a challenge for our entire family, but the results have been amazing nonetheless. With or without a diagnosis, your son should still be referred for some sort of therapy for his symptoms, and be able to start. It will help him tremendously. Search all of your resources, and remember that his parents are his strongest advocates. Stay encouraged.