Angie-Please get your daughter diagnosed by a reputable pediatrician, and don't take "she'll grow out of it" or "she's still young, let's see what happens in a year or two" or any of that other crap doctors give worried parents. You're worried for a reason, and you have a ton of them listed. If you keep waiting and waiting, the windows of opportunity for you daughter to learn will start to close. I think you should try and find a D.A.N. (Defeat Autism Now) doctor in your area, and then start an ABA program. This therapy is one of the only ones with proven clinical results, even to the point of some people being "cured". Good luck!
I am a firm believer in disability rights.
Well when you have Autism you think everyone else is weird except you.
People tell me they think it is embarrassing I have a brain issue. Actually I have thought that it was embarrassing that they said it was embarrassing I was like that.
Regardless though of what is wrong with me I have heard of the Americans with Disabilities Act. I think I have a brain disorder. I believe in my rights regardless of what disability I may or may not have, in either case.
Besides that I have had thinking and memory and judgment problems. Sometimes it has felt like my head was full of air, or a tight and squeeze-y feeling. People don't know what it is like to live that way. And instead of helping they want to execute you. I asked my mom questions like how and why people do those things and I've told her I don't understand sometimes.
Hello. The BIG problem I have with the mental health system is that if there is something wrong with your brain they cannot correct it at all. All they do is give you medications to ease whatever pain and trauma living with the disorder puts you through (that and the discomfort).
Have you talked this over with her Pediatrician? That is where I started with my daughter when she wasn't talking about 18 mos. & other things I saw. He suggested I wait till she was 2 and then helped set up the evaluation by a child psychologist. I later got another evaluation, but the first diagnose was a significant developmental delay.
The psychologist was reluctant to stick a label on her at that age because things could change he said. He cautioned me that parents could go overboard and try to do everything they could to change things or the other way. Later I saw how people, including myself, could go "label" hopping to try find the perfect fit.
For awhile I had to hear the "mixed bag" while they were puzzled because she didn't quite fit this or that, although hyperactivity clearly came into it early with her slipping out of her stroller & running off and highchair and not being able to sit still long enough.
At 6, a team of specialists saw her and gave her the PDD-NOS diagnose. She had an imaginary friend, MPM, which is why they didn't put her in the more classic category. Other than that, she had autistic behavior, licking her fingers, in her own world, perseverating on bugs which started about 4 yrs. old. with her picking up ants. From then on out, she went after bugs every opportunity she had. By 6 she was drawing page after page of ant pupae (very detailed) with tunnels, etc. I saved a lot of her early drawings.
So...a lot can change. I took the approach to do what I could & remember the "over board" to watch for it. I worked mostly with language with her because she didn't really start talking where she could have conversations more developed till toward 8 or so. It was basic when it started & she would be off to her things. She used us for meeting her needs. Had a stage where she whispered that freaked us out when I took her to a babysitter.
We worried that they had done something to her. One of the hard things with a non-verbal child is what trying to understand what they trying to convey by their actions.
I can share with you what was good about the evaluations was that the 2nd one found a hearing loss and tested her, telling us she should have tubes in her ears. They explained to us that if her delay was only due to the fluid in ears, she wouldn't be across the board like she was in her delay.
Otherwise I would have contributed it to the hearing loss.
I don't know if you have already seen someone or are waiting, but that is a good place to start.
Please keep us posted. We will be pulling for the best outcome with you and your child.
I forgot to mention that she does love playing peek a boo and loves being chased