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[nee16]

hi i had a little girl 6 months ago her name was taylor she gorgous my first baby could'nt beleive she was so perfect and mine. she stopped drinking her bottles at about 2months bro bought her to the doctor and told him she was sweating and breathing very heavyly and not drinking bottles ask him to do bloods he said she was fine and she did'nt need tests, she was still the same 1 and half months later brought he back and her back he said she was still fine.inbetween all this i was taking her to my health nurse for her to keep a eye on her. then the sunday after i brought her to doc i took her to the hopo and she got very sick then the next day she passed away from a heart condition called anoymos left cronry artery, have her full results on thursday just to make sure. I am lost with out her don't know what to be doing everyday. the hopo said it was a one in a million chance this happens but it does'nt matter cause it still happened to us.. i just don't understand...... im so sorry to anyone that has had to go threw this, it is the worst thing ever.

[kcd86]

I am so very sorry for your loss, I know these word will not make you feel any better but know we all have felt this horrible, numbing pain. We lost out little girl Caitlin Maureen three days before Christmas 1995, boy it still feels like yesterday. Please keep in mind there will be alot of people saying varying different things trying their best to comfort you and somethings said will annoy or even get you mad at times. It is very uncomfortable because people don't know what to say or do during this extreme emotional time, just know they all mean well from their heart. You won't ever get over your loss you just learn to deal with it over time. We got thru our touhest times with family and close friends and so will you. Please remember this type of extreme emotional pain takes time to heal and it will not hurt to seek proffesional support as we did.  
You are in our prayers

[have 2 kids]

I'm sorry you lost your little girl.  I hope having this group brings you a little comfort so you can make it through the bad days.

[rdh1981]

Thank you for sharing the story of your beautiful Angel. I too lost my son due to a heart condition. This is a pain no Mother should have to endure. Please know that you are not alone, there are many women walking this same dark path. May you find some light and hope within this forum. Please know we are here for you and we will listen anytime you need us.  

Thank you again and please stick around! : )

[tatorbug40]

I am sorry for your pain.  I pray that you will find some peace soon, and know that your little girl is watching over you.  You are right- the statistics do not matter one bit....  when it happens to you, it is painful.  Hopefully this forum and talking with some of the other girls will bring you some comfort.

[Lance06]

I am so sorry for your loss hun. We are all here for you if you need to talk.